Today my aunt, uncle, Tricia and Melissa is here from Texas for a week. Last time I saw Melissa, Tricia and their parents was at Spring Texas when I lived there. Melissa was a toddler when I last seen her and now she is 15. So I had my incident 14 years ago, time flies. Here is a picture of Melissa and my sister’s dog.

I had my incident on her first Birthday, a vessel burst in my head.


Truly blessed 

I was alone in my room and decided to take pictures with my first bralette ever. I am learning to embrace my body for it’s hard work. I wore my sunglasses and took a picture, I posted it on my Instagram. Someone asked was I alone. I zoomed close to the glasses and thought a ghost was near me praying. I was freaked out for 4 days then I zoomed in closer and I see an angel praying, see his wings, eyes, nose. I am truly bless.


Remember I got the trainer at Planet Fitness fired for harassing females. I’m so proud of myself for handling it the way I did. Planet Fitness has more female signing up. I am pushing my wheelchair around with weights for more than three hours again, I love the gym so much I don’t want it doing bad. Before the trainer worked Planet Fitness, I was getting,” you are a motivator.” From people that when he started working I wasn’t getting it, yesterday I was sitting on my wheelchair outside waiting for my mom to get me and bring me home. A guy came up to me,” you are a motivator.” I feel like the Asian Rosa Park.

My home gym

It is not completely done, I want to buy more equipment and a few containers so I put all the weights and resistance bands in the containers to make room. I love how it’s turning out so far, it looks perfect. Planet Fitness gave me the idea to have my own home gym, is just at home. You have to start somewhere.


For years, I been told that I go to the gym for nothing and that I was weaker. I believed what I heard because I was reminded everyday that I have gotten thicker, unhealthy, weak. People like to bring you down. The lady I meant at my gym caught my attention. Thanks to the hate comments, it is the reason why I go hard at the gym….I was round and I can fit a small, some small!!!


Remember I wrote that I meant a guy on a wheelchair and I ended up inspiring him to try walking again. He now can do .5 on the treadmill. Anyways I haven’t seen him in over a month until today. He told me he gave up for a few weeks on getting his legs stronger. I am so proud of him. He came to the gym without assistant. He was working on his legs. I inspired him so much!!! I ask him permission if I can take a picture of him.